my boyfriend is getting fat and i like it

Shell offer seconds or keep sweets around knowing I cant help myself. How much ice cream can you eat at one sitting? Funny how an average american woman life packs on the pounds ha. We have great s**, but have to take breaks to catch out breath sometimes. She now weighs 215 pounds and shes getting fatter bu the week. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. He says he's getting fat, he said he's never been this heavy, always calls himself a fatty (and other various words), that he's gonna lose weight, he's gonna eat less, etc., etc. All I can think of when he does that is this is how its going to be from now on. I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. =( I am afraid my attraction to him may decrease if he gets skinny again. He said about 40-50 pounds heavier. (Which is true, he has lost about an inch." By the way I should admit that I like how he looks and the security that he shows in himself. Seems like you dont mind that shes heavier now, too. Over the four years we've been married, she has completely ballooned, weighing 245 or so after year 1, then 260 year 2, 280-290 year 3, and so far this year, she's really piling on the pounds. It really sounds like you are both having a great time. Nice try attempting to identify with the population of heavier women, but you arent there yet, babe. They say you dont have to finish it all, which means we have to finish it all. A good goal for the first year of marriage is 50 pounds. Just ask him how big he would like you to be. Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. But when he does make these comments.. eating less food or something.. it upsets me. My ball gut is going to hang halfway to my knees. Make a podcast, YouTube or TikTok videos about our confessions and we'll promote your content, free! My wife loves to serve me a massive portion,casually mentioning that I do not have to eat it all. He says the s** is beyond awesome. But that belly yuck. Who a I to take that away from him . Which side are you on? God it's fun when your wife gets fat! Probably just living the life of an average American woman at this point and the pounds have just come on. My cooking is too good! There also may come a time when you express to him that your attraction level isnt what it was before I wouldnt do this right away, because that seems like a lot of pressure. Thats totally fine. Hi guys, how are you doing? I never really wanted to gain but secretly love how he looks at me, rubs my body, and ultimately fantasize him feeding me. The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. Did your husband ask you to gain for him initially or did you just happen to gain and could tell he liked it and continued getting bigger? My wife isn't quite as heavy as yours. By subscribing to this BDG newsletter, you agree to our. I said I didn't want her to have it that she looked beautiful. In Covid I gained 51 pounds. I have found tremendous stress reduction from adopting a foodie/feeder lifestyle.Now that I am obviously obese, I am very humble and nonjudgmental around the growing numbers of similarly configured men and women I encounter. I keep imagining if the situation were reversed. By keeping his belly full and pushing him beyond his limits, in a few years you can really fill him out. I think they're crazy and completely insensitive. I guess because it came from someone else. A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, How to handle colleague/former friend rejection again, Official Cambridge Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, The Cambridge College Hurt/Heal Game [part 2], Andrew Tate arrested for human trafficking, are there more doors or wheels in the world, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, History NEA- John Guy Historian validity and analysis. Haha! She's gorgeous, greedy and very sexy. She was pretty happy about losing weight, she made it down to 210, when one day, she eventually noticed that the backs of her thighs looked gross when she was standing--she was right. I love her. Weve been together three years. I've discussed the ways to make him happy and deal with this situation with a calm state of mind. I wondered if my husband would recognise me after surgery loosing weight in a short space of time. Luckily I have my own business and do much of my work from home. I am trying to introduce more greens and salads into our household diet but my wife and kids aren't real receptive to it. He had his shirt off last night, and WOW, what a pot belly. Ive dated thin and fat, and there are good things about both. If that changes which I personally doubt you can make another decision later. I got wet instantly just thinking about it! and "You're shrinking down there!" I don't know exactly what I'd thought I'd accomplish by confessing. I feel very, very shameful and bad. get regular health check-ups, you probably wont be able to know. Is a 70 pound 2 year old too big? Say yes and gain as much as possible. The fatter he gets, the less you have to convince yourself. His legs and arms are still quite lean. Plus he carries most of his weight in his tummy and face. Me, myself and I. Its definitely worth it in the end to achieve a healthier lifestyle. It is so much fun to watch a slightly chubby women lose control and pack on the pounds after marriage. She has had some good luck with a few online specialty retailers. Follow us for the best, hand picked confessions. But he has been super sweet about my weight gain, so Im a little conflicted!! Maybe seeing my words will help me assess the situation. Not sure if I want to keep gaining because its just so foreign to me to not be in good shape. Let me tell you, she pigged out and gained a whopping 85 pounds. Couldn't keep my hands off her. Is finding clothes for them a challenge? Definitely not my choice. Just please do not take that out on him or his body. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. For one, I don't like to see someone purposely deprive themselves of something or to be unhappy, but also because I'm scared he'll get skinny again. Are they teased and called names? I dont think she wanted a portly husband. . Women who approach fattening their husbands up like that are really persuasive. I'm going to sit on my fat ass and eat until I can barely walk. She is still breast feeding our youngest and needs to be pumped on a daily basis and since she is so huge, she has difficulty doing it herself. My face is a little chubbier, went up a cup size and a pants size. Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. Id be angry! Oh, and I'd grown one whole inch taller in those 17 years since freshman year. Curlybig5000 at yahoo.com. It turns him on but Im just tolerating it. I used to suffer from anorexia about 10 years ago. I think you have to ask yourself what you are comfortable with and determine how you feel about it first. I'm very glad to hear that you and your children enjoy eating and being fat. In the first year she gained almost 30 pounds. My hubs says he will get me an aide for me. I met my hubby at gym. Just the sight of his boxers folding under his gut or seeing him try on clothes that are now too small for him.. Yup, you can be sneaky about it! We may not feel . skinny and exercise every day but still not physically fit, Rejected from uni and feeling kind of down. Id think he was so shallow and that he didnt love me anymore and maybe never loved me in the first place. Lot to loose but for you it sounds like you may have made your mind up. How many women want to seriously fatten up their husbands? I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. So its not a lack of honesty, its just that shes not ready to talk about it and Im respecting that. Well be prepared because your girls are going to face a lifetime of pain and misery because you and your enormouse wife allowed them to get super fat. It really burns their skinny little a**** when they see how devoted I am to my beautiful, enormous, princess. Once you have the percentage, compare it with the recommended percentage of body fats (10%-20% for healthy men, 18%-28% for women), and if it is more than these ranges (though he has a normal weight), your husband is skinny fat. He loves to play with her belly rolls. I go up and down now and again but Ive always stopped before 300 and gotten motivated to lose again. But: He's fat. Whenever I observe how fat Ive gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. She probably also gets turned on by seeing your fat butt waddle around her house. With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. I just went up to a size 48/30 jeans! And he's a really cool guy-----BUT he doesn't workout, and never really has. Put that extra fat on girl - he loves the blubber. This one is different. Thats why everyone should remain careful about these causes. She says she feel perfectly fine, and won't go back to the doctor unless she doesn't feel well. Am I a terrible, shallow person? Avoid having serious conversations with him. Hes closing in on 300 pounds of blubber. Im not sure if shes stepped up her efforts, or if Im just finally tuned in. My husband is getting fat. I was at a friend's birthday party at a bar when I saw my future boyfriend Brian from across the room, talking to the birthday boy. Just don't take it out on him or his body. I'm 288 pounds at 5'8 now. People with skinny fat tend to have really attractive bodies, so its no surprise that you like your boyfriends skinny fat body. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. . It was a pretty rough birth as our daughter was very large, almost 12lbs so a c-section was performed. December 25, 2018. Master Age: 22. I'm at 250 now, heaviest I've ever been. The latter. no dibetes or nothin. She's only 135 and works out regularly. Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend's Getting Fat". Anyone getting fat for a new years resolution? I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. If hes defensive, thats understandable, if frustrating. I've been married for the past 5 years and I was about 300lbs back then and now I've gained to a about 400lb . (I also want to be clear that its beyond beyond beyond beyond fine to gain 40 pounds at any time, and its especially fine to gain 40 pounds during a years-long pandemic. Hes always trying to get me touching his belly or squeezing it. Lucky man fatten her more. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds! It's such a sore subject . The way shes been over serving me over the holidays, I definitely got that hint! Over the years shes put on 100 pounds. When we go out to eat he encourages me to eat more, and when I say I am full he just says, C'mon, just one more bite. Like I said, it took some pressure off to know how he felt. At 55, you are a very normal weight for awoman. and our What Im concerned about is his mental health. I think hes noticed that Im rarely in the mood to have sex anymore, but he hasnt said anything and neither have I. If he has a health issue, thats for him and his doctor to discuss NOT you. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Dinner is actually in 10 minutes! In the past few months my boyfriend gained weigh, a feeeeew kilos actually. And I have!. 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